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Dildos
How to choose
The things that actually matter when you're choosing — plain language, no spec-sheet jargon.
Material sets the feel. Silicone — like the Curve Toys and NS Novelties dildos here — is non-porous, body-safe, and firm with a little give. PVC, used in our double dildos, is softer and more flexible but porous, so pair it with a condom for easy cleanup and worry-free sharing.
Judge size by girth, then length. Girth determines comfort far more than length does. Around five inches insertable and a slim circumference — the NS Novelties starter, for example — suits most beginners; long doubles measure impressively but only part of each end is ever in use.
The base decides what it can do. A suction cup base means hands-free rides on tile or glass, harness compatibility, and the flared stop required for anal safety. Double-ended toys skip the base entirely — they're for hands or partners.
Solo or shared. Solo users get the most from a suction cup model; couples exploring double penetration or simultaneous use are exactly who the 14- and 16-inch Blush doubles were designed for.
Lube and care. Use water-based lube with silicone toys — silicone lube can degrade the surface. Wash after every use; pure silicone with no electronics can be boiled to fully sanitize.
For our ranked picks, read the guide: Best dildos in Canada (2026).
Questions, answered
The questions we get most often — answered straight, with real numbers where they help.
General
What size dildo should I start with?
General
What size dildo should I start with?
Body-Safe
What are dildos made of?
Body-Safe
What are dildos made of?
Usage
How do I clean a dildo?
Usage
How do I clean a dildo?
General
Should I get a dildo or a vibrator?
General
Should I get a dildo or a vibrator?
Usage
Can I use a dildo anally?
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Can I use a dildo anally?
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How do double-ended dildos work?
Usage
How do double-ended dildos work?
Shipping
Is shipping discreet?
Shipping
Is shipping discreet?
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Discreet delivery
Plain unbranded box — no logo, no brand name, no contents description. Card statements show SP RP Chhokra Inc., never "Red Pleasures".
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Canada-wide shipping
Shipped from Ottawa, 2–5 business days to most Canadian addresses.
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Body-safe only
Non-porous, phthalate-free materials. If we can't verify what it's made of, we don't stock it.
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Easy returns
Unopened items returnable within 30 days. Canadian returns policy, no restocking charges.
5%
of every purchase, first year
Pleasure with purpose
Five percent of every purchase funds Canadian organizations supporting women impacted by sexual exploitation. The same commitment you see on every product page — carried through to the shelf. See our impact report →

