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Dildos
How to choose
The things that actually matter when you're choosing — plain language, no spec-sheet jargon.
Material sets the feel. Silicone is non-porous and body-safe, firm with a little give, and easy to clean. Each product page names the material, so check it before you buy.
Judge size by girth, then length. Girth decides comfort far more than length. Around five inches insertable with a slim shaft suits most beginners, like the NS Novelties 5-inch. The Lovense Mission 2 has 5.51 inches insertable and is 1.46 inches wide.
The base decides what it can do. A suction cup holds the dildo on smooth tile or glass for hands-free use, and a flared base is what makes a toy safe for anal play. The NS Novelties, Curve Toys, Mission 2 and Gravity dildos all have suction bases.
Plain, vibrating or thrusting. A plain dildo is simple and quiet. The Lovense Mission 2 adds vibration. The Lovense Gravity and Spinel move in and out by themselves and also vibrate. All three Lovense dildos pair with the Lovense app, so a partner can take control.
Lube and care. Use water-based lube with silicone toys, because silicone lube can damage the surface. Wash after every use with warm water and mild unscented soap. Only a pure silicone dildo with no electronics can be boiled to sanitize it.
For our ranked picks, read the guide: Best dildos in Canada (2026).
Questions, answered
The questions we get most often — answered straight, with real numbers where they help.
General
What size dildo should I start with?
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What size dildo should I start with?
Body-Safe
What are dildos made of?
Body-Safe
What are dildos made of?
Usage
How do I clean a dildo?
Usage
How do I clean a dildo?
General
Should I get a dildo or a vibrator?
General
Should I get a dildo or a vibrator?
Usage
Can I use a dildo anally?
Usage
Can I use a dildo anally?
General
Can a dildo vibrate or move by itself?
General
Can a dildo vibrate or move by itself?
Shipping
Is shipping discreet?
Shipping
Is shipping discreet?
Discreet delivery & billing
A plain, unbranded box. No logo, no brand name, and no description of the contents anywhere on the outside — just the courier's address label.
Charges appear as SP RP Chhokra Inc.“Red Pleasures” never appears on your bank or credit card statement.
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Canada-wide shipping
Shipped from Ottawa, 2–7 business days to most Canadian addresses.
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Body-safe only
Non-porous, phthalate-free materials. If we can't verify what it's made of, we don't stock it.
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Damaged or wrong item?
Tell us within 48 hours of delivery and we'll replace it, or give store credit if it's sold out.
5%
of every purchase, first year
Pleasure with purpose
Five percent of every purchase funds Canadian organizations supporting women impacted by sexual exploitation. The same commitment you see on every product page — carried through to the shelf. See our impact report →

