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Lovense adjustable strap-on harness
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Lovense Adjustable Strap-On Harness

Lovense's own harness for Lapis — stretchy O-ring fits 1.57–2 in dildos

The Lovense Harness is an adjustable strap-on harness made of nylon, spandex and polyamide, built to hold the Lovense Lapis steady and fit other dildos with a 1.57–2 in diameter. The waist adjusts from 74 to 123 cm and the leg straps from 28 to 42 cm. Ships discreetly.
CAD $55.89 $56.00 Save $0.11

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Delivery2–5 business days across Canada
Warranty3-month warranty
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Who this is for

Best for all levels usersCouples

Who this is for

This harness is for Lapis owners who want it to stay put. It takes the work off the wearer's pelvic-floor muscles, so you can thrust harder, change positions and play longer. It also fits many other dildos with a flared base or suction cup between 1.57 and 2 inches across.

Full specifications

Everything we know about this product, in one place — no fine print, no guessing.

Body & safety
Lube compatibility
Not applicable
Power & performance
Charging
Not applicable
Ownership & origin
Warranty
3 months
Condition
New
MPN
LS0265

Common questions

Straight answers to the questions people ask before buying.

Usage
Do I need a harness for Lapis?
No, Lapis is designed to be worn strapless. But it can slide out during thrusting, especially if your pelvic-floor muscles tire, and the harness keeps it steady.
General
Will it fit me?
The waist adjusts from 74 to 123 cm (29.13–48.43 in) and the leg straps from 28 to 42 cm (11.02–16.54 in), which covers most body sizes.
Usage
Can I use other dildos with it?
Yes. The stretchy O-ring fits dildos from about 1.57 to 2 inches in diameter, including many with a flared base or suction cup.
Body-Safe
What is it made of?
Nylon, spandex and polyamide — a soft, stretchy fabric blend.
Usage
How do I wash it?
Hand-wash in lukewarm water with a mild detergent and let it air-dry completely.
Warranty
What warranty does it have?
Lovense covers the harness for 90 days. As with all intimate products, it can't be returned for change of mind. But if it arrives damaged, faulty or incomplete, tell us within 14 days and you choose a replacement or a full refund.

How to use, clean, and store

The full guide, step by step.

  1. 1. Step into the leg straps and adjust them to a snug fit; they hold that length until you change it.
  2. 2. Fasten the velcro waist strap so the harness sits firmly against your body.
  3. 3. With Lapis, insert the bulb first, then fit the shaft through the O-ring.
  4. 4. For other dildos, push the base through the O-ring from behind so the flared base or suction cup sits against your body.
  5. 5. Check the fit and tighten the straps if the toy sways.
  6. 6. Loosen the straps and remove the toy when you finish.
Important: Hand-wash only. Machine washing or tumble drying can stretch the elastic and wear out the velcro.
  1. 1. Remove any toy from the O-ring.
  2. 2. Hand-wash the harness in lukewarm water with a mild detergent.
  3. 3. Close the velcro before washing so it doesn't snag the straps.
  4. 4. Rinse well and squeeze out the water — don't wring it.
  5. 5. Air-dry completely before storing.
  1. 1. Make sure the harness is completely dry.
  2. 2. Fasten the velcro so it doesn't catch on other items.
  3. 3. Store it flat or loosely folded with your strap-on toys.
  4. 4. Keep it away from direct heat and sunlight.

The Lovense Adjustable Strap-On Harness story

Why we carry it.

A strapless strap-on like the Lovense Lapis is designed to stay in place on its own: the wearer holds the bulb with the pelvic-floor muscles. In practice, that takes strength, and independent reviewers of Lapis say it can slide out once you start thrusting. The Lovense Harness is Lovense's answer — a soft fabric harness that holds Lapis against your body so it moves with you.

Lovense's own harness for Lapis — stretchy O-ring fits 1.57–2 in dildos

The harness is made from nylon, spandex and polyamide, a stretchy blend that's soft against skin and built to take pulling and stretching. The waist closes with velcro and adjusts from 74 to 123 cm (29.13–48.43 in). The leg straps adjust from 28 to 42 cm (11.02–16.54 in) and stay at the length you set. A firm but flexible O-ring sits at the front.

With Lapis, the harness takes the weight and the work off the wearer, so you can change positions, thrust harder and play for longer. It isn't limited to Lapis, either: the O-ring stretches to fit dildos from about 1.57 to 2 inches in diameter, including many with flared bases or suction cups.

Getting the fit right takes a minute the first time. Step into the leg straps and set them snug, then close the waist strap so the harness sits flat against your body. With Lapis, insert the bulb first and then guide the shaft through the O-ring. If the toy still sways, tighten the straps a little. Once the leg straps are set, they stay that way, so the next time is quicker.

Care is simple: hand-wash it and let it air-dry. Lovense covers the harness with a 90-day warranty.

We stock the Lovense Harness alongside Lapis because the two work best together. If you already own Lapis and find it slipping, this is the fix Lovense designed for it. Red Pleasures ships every order in plain packaging.

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