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Lovense Flexer App-Controlled Wearable Panty Vibrator – Pink

Come-hither arm moves inside while clit and G-spot vibes run

The Lovense Flexer is a wearable silicone panty vibrator with three motors: a clitoral vibe, a G-spot vibe and a come-hither motion arm. It is IPX7 waterproof, runs 65–120 minutes per charge, and pairs with the Lovense Remote app for close or long-distance control. Ships discreetly with a 1-year warranty.
Phthalate-freeIPX7 Waterproof
CAD $151.89 $169.00 Save $17.11

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Who this is for

Best for intermediate usersSoloCouplesLong-distanceBath/shower

Who this is for

For anyone who wants internal and clitoral stimulation at once without holding a toy, and likes the idea of a beckoning, finger-like motion rather than plain vibration. It suits couples and long-distance partners who want to hand over control through the Lovense Remote app.

What people say elsewhere

Real quotes from Reddit, reviewer blogs, and independent creators — not our marketing team. Each quote links to its original source.

Reviewer Blog
“The sensation this toy offers is fantastic. It's also not exactly like any other product I've tried.”
Amy, Coffee & Kink· Jun 2024· View source →
Reviewer Blog
“This felt AMAZING. I loved the fingering sensation.”
Luxe Vibes· Dec 2022· View source →
Reviewer Blog
“The app control is a game-changer, especially for couples.”
Jess, Overcoming the Distance· May 2026· View source →

Full specifications

Everything we know about this product, in one place — no fine print, no guessing.

WaterproofIPX7
Battery120 min
Body & safety
Phthalate-free
Yes
Waterproof
IPX7 (fully submersible)
Lube compatibility
Water-based only
Size & feel
Insertable length
3.2 in / 8.1 cm
Total length
4.0 in / 10.1 cm
Girth (max)
1.4 in / 3.6 cm
Power & performance
Motor
Triple: clit vibe, G-spot vibe, come-hither arm
Vibration modes
7 patterns
Battery runtime
120 minutes
Charge time
70 minutes
Charging
Proprietary magnetic pins
App-controlled
Yes · Lovense Remote
Ownership & origin
Warranty
12 months
Condition
New
MPN
LS0074
Body-Safe Verified

Body-safe by design — not by claim.

Lovense makes the Flexer from silicone and ABS plastic, and states that none of its products contain phthalates. It is IPX7 waterproof, so it can be rinsed and used in the shower or bath. Use water-based lubricant only; silicone and oil-based lubricants are not recommended. Do not use it on broken or irritated skin, or if you are allergic to silicone or ABS. Flexer is designed for vaginal use only, not anal use. This is not a medical device.

Common questions

Straight answers to the questions people ask before buying.

General
How big is the Lovense Flexer?
Flexer stands 4 inches (101 mm) tall. The internal arm is 3.2 inches (81 mm) with a 1.4-inch (36 mm) head, and the body is 1.3 inches (32 mm) wide.
Usage
Can I control the come-hither motion separately from the vibration?
Yes. In the Lovense Remote app you can run the come-hither motion and the vibrations together or on their own. Reviewers note the clitoral and G-spot vibes share one control.
Battery
How long does the battery last?
Lovense quotes 65 to 120 minutes of continuous use, depending on intensity, from a charge of about 70 minutes on the magnetic USB cable.
Usage
Is Flexer waterproof?
Yes, it is IPX7 waterproof, so you can use it in the shower or bath. Bluetooth signal is unreliable underwater, so app control may drop while submerged.
Body-Safe
What lube should I use with Flexer?
Water-based lube only. Lovense advises against silicone and oil-based lubricants with this toy.
Usage
Is Flexer quiet enough to wear in public?
Reviewers say the moving arm makes an audible creak, so it's better suited to home and partner play than to a quiet room.
Body-Safe
Can Flexer be used anally?
No. Lovense says Flexer is not designed for anal use and may break if used that way.
Warranty
What warranty does Flexer have?
Lovense covers Flexer with a 1-year manufacturer's warranty, which Red Pleasures handles for you. As with all intimate products, it can't be returned for change of mind. But if it arrives damaged, faulty or incomplete, tell us within 14 days and you choose a replacement or a full refund.

How to use, clean, and store

The full guide, step by step.

  1. 1. Charge fully before first use; the red light turns off when charging is done.
  2. 2. Hold the power button for 3–5 seconds; Flexer vibrates once to show it's on.
  3. 3. Pair it in the Lovense Remote app: tap "+" and select Flexer.
  4. 4. Apply water-based lube generously to the internal arm and to yourself.
  5. 5. Insert the internal arm so the outer pad rests over your clitoris, then pull your underwear up to hold it.
  6. 6. Tap the button to cycle presets, or use the app to run the vibes and the come-hither motion.
  7. 7. Use water-based lube only; silicone or oil-based lube is not recommended.
Important: Never boil Flexer or use it while it is charging. Use water-based lube only, and recharge it at least every six months, or the battery can be damaged.
  1. 1. Clean Flexer before and after every use.
  2. 2. Wash with warm water and a mild, unscented soap or a toy cleaner.
  3. 3. Pay attention to the crease between the internal arm and the outer pad.
  4. 4. Rinse well; it is IPX7 waterproof.
  5. 5. Dry thoroughly before storing.
  6. 6. Never boil it — the battery can fail and water can get inside.
  1. 1. Make sure Flexer is completely dry.
  2. 2. Store it away from extreme heat or cold.
  3. 3. Keep it in a clean pouch, apart from other toys.
  4. 4. Recharge it at least once every six months, even when it isn't in use.
  1. Charge fully first — the red light turns off when it's done
  2. Pair it in the Lovense Remote app before you put it on
  3. Use plenty of water-based lube; the silicone has a matte finish
  4. Start seated: reviewers find it stays put best that way
  5. Try the come-hither motion alone before adding vibration

The Lovense Flexer App-Controlled Wearable Panty Vibrator – Pink story

Why we carry it.

Most wearable vibrators do one thing: they buzz. Lovense designed the Flexer to do something closer to what a hand does. Its internal arm moves in a slow, beckoning come-hither motion against the front wall, while separate motors vibrate at the G-spot and against the clitoris. Lovense calls it "magic fingers", and the three-motor layout is the reason the name fits.

Come-hither arm moves inside while clit and G-spot vibes run

The shape is built to be worn, not held. The internal arm is 3.2 inches tall with a 1.4-inch head, and the outer pad curves forward to sit over the clitoris, so your underwear holds everything in place. The whole toy stands 4 inches tall. It is made from silicone and ABS plastic, IPX7 waterproof, and charges on a magnetic USB cable in about 70 minutes for 65 to 120 minutes of play, depending on intensity.

The Flexer comes into its own with the Lovense Remote app. You can run the vibrations and the come-hither motion together or on their own, sync them to music, store up to ten of your own patterns on the toy, or hand control to a partner across the room or across the country. A single button on the toy cycles through seven presets if you'd rather leave your phone alone.

Independent reviewers are consistent about what it does well and where it falls short. They describe the finger-like motion as a genuinely different sensation from standard vibrators, and say it works best when you are sitting or lying down. They also note that it can slip when you stand and walk, and that the moving arm makes an audible creak, so it is better suited to home and partner play than to a quiet office.

We stock the Flexer for people who want hands-free internal and clitoral stimulation with a motion, not just a buzz, and for couples who play at a distance. Use water-based lube only, wash it before and after each use, and keep it charged. As with all intimate products, it can't be returned for change of mind. But if it arrives damaged, faulty or incomplete, tell us within 14 days and you choose a replacement or a full refund.

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