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Collection: Beginner Starter Kits

New to toys and have no idea where to start? Beginner Starter Kits give you a soft landing instead of a steep learning curve.

These sets combine gentle, easy-to-use toys with the right lube and clear guidance, so you're not accidentally buying something way too intense as your first experience. Expect smaller sizes, simpler controls and body-safe materials chosen for comfort, not shock value.

Pick a kit that matches your vibe—solo discovery, first vibrator, or "we're both curious but nervous"—and treat it as your first, judgment-free step into better pleasure.

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305 products

Red silhouettes of a man and a woman facing each other on a black background
Date Night Upgrade — FREE Lube + Toy Cleaner + Arousal Gel with every purchase
BDSM kit with black furry handcuffs, blindfold, and whip.

BDSM

Introductory BDSM Kit with Cuffs, Blindfold and Whip – Sex & Mischief

Regular price $41.88
Sale price Regular price $41.88
Iridescent teal finger vibrator with two buttons.

Vibrators

Kisscool Tapping Finger Vibrator – Iridescent Teal – Love To Love

Regular price $112.48
Sale price Regular price $112.48
Pink silicone dildo with suction base, long and curved for strap-on play.

Dildos

Magnum Silicone Dildo with Suction Base for Strap-On Play – Fun Factory

Regular price $74.88
Sale price Regular price $74.88
Handcrafted poplar wood spanking paddle with a blue loop and engraved logo.

BDSM

Handcrafted Poplar Wood Spanking Paddle – Wicked Wanda

Regular price $68.25
Sale price Regular price $68.25
Wicked Sensual Care Jelle water based anal lubricant travel size.

Other

Anal Lubricant Gel Travel Size 0.10oz by Wicked – Red Pleasures

Regular price $1.63
Sale price Regular price $1.63
Black weighted silicone anal butt plug with a flared base.

Anal Toys

Snug Plug 1 Weighted Silicone Anal Butt Plug in Black – b-Vibe

Regular price $79.43
Sale price Regular price $79.43
Black vegan leather flogger with a braided handle and multiple leather strands.

BDSM

Black Vegan Leather Flogger, 24-Inch BDSM Whip – Sex & Mischief

Regular price $18.00
Sale price Regular price $18.00
A teal Lelo Hugo remote prostate massager with a silver control panel.

For Him

Hugo Remote Prostate Massager – Waterproof Silicone – Lelo

Regular price $284.88
Sale price Regular price $284.88
A violet weighted silicone anal plug with a flared base.

Anal Toys

Snug Plug 1 Weighted Silicone Anal Plug in Violet – b-Vibe

Regular price $79.43
Sale price Regular price $79.43
Ties That Bind SM and Fetish Relationship Guide book cover.

Accessories

Ties That Bind: SM and Fetish Relationship Guide by Baldwin – Books

Regular price $33.25
Sale price Regular price $33.25
The New Topping Book by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy.

Accessories

The New Topping Book: Essential BDSM Manual by Dossie Easton – Red Pleasures

Regular price $29.38
Sale price Regular price $29.38
Blue wand massager with yellow accents and two yellow buttons.

Vibrators

Rechargeable Waterproof Wand Massager with Silicone Head – ROMP Flip

Regular price $68.75
Sale price Regular price $68.75
Book cover for SM 101 by Jay Wiseman, featuring a hand holding a flogger.

Accessories

SM 101: A Realistic Introduction to BDSM by Jay Wiseman – Greenery Press

Regular price $49.13
Sale price Regular price $49.13
Two silver anal plugs with pink heart-shaped gem bases.

Anal Toys

Jewel Heart Metal Anal Plug Training Set – b-Vibe – Red Pleasures

Regular price $67.38
Sale price Regular price $67.38
A light blue, cloud-shaped clitoral vibrator with air pulse and vibration technology.

Vibrators

Air Pulse Clitoral Vibrator – Waterproof Silicone Cloud Dancer – Satisfyer

Regular price $104.88
Sale price Regular price $104.88
A black silicone paddle with a hole at the top and embossed text.

BDSM

Thwack Silicone BDSM Paddle in Onyx – Tantus

Regular price $49.88
Sale price Regular price $49.88
Black smooth silicone non-penetrative attachment with a raised center.

Vibrators

Smooth Silicone Non-Penetrative Attachment in Black – The Cowgirl

Regular price $79.43
Sale price Regular price $79.43
Rose gold flogger with black faux leather falls.

BDSM

Brat Flogger with Faux Leather Falls in Rose Gold – Sex & Mischief

Regular price $26.55
Sale price Regular price
Embrace Me Erotic Playset with satin ties, lube, and Kama Sutra cards.

Accessories

Embrace Me Erotic Playset with Satin Ties and Lube – Kama Sutra

Regular price $63.10
Sale price Regular price
Black adjustable hogtie and cuff set with four restraints.

BDSM

Hogtie and Cuff Set with 4 Adjustable Restraints – Sportsheets

Regular price $79.88
Sale price Regular price
Book cover titled "Bondage for Sex Volume 1" with rope bondage imagery.

Accessories

Bondage for Sex: An Introductory Guide to BDSM and Fetish – Books

Regular price $60.63
Sale price Regular price
A black Be·One dual motor finger vibrator is shown on its packaging.

Vibrators

Be·One Dual Motor Finger Vibrator with Travel Case – Fun Factory

Regular price $122.78
Sale price Regular price
Red Aneros Progasm hands-free prostate massager with dual stimulation.

For Him

Progasm Hands-Free Prostate Massager in Red Ice – Aneros

Regular price $87.38
Sale price Regular price
Original Wand Massager with a red rose pattern and a black silicone head.

Vibrators

Original Wand Massager – Deep Sensation Silicone Head – Doxy Roses

Regular price $224.88
Sale price Regular price
A white gift box containing a pink G-spot bullet, pink kegel balls, a white candle, and a box of treats.

Gift Sets

Nice and Naughty Sexual Wellness Gift Set with G-Spot Bullet – Je Joue

Regular price $188.88
Sale price Regular price

About Red Pleasures | Discreet Sexual Wellness Store in Canada

Your body deserves better.

Red Pleasures is an Ottawa, Ontario–based sexual wellness store built on
three values: Safety, Privacy, and Education.
We curate premium products to help you shop with confidence—without the clutter of mass-market listings.


Our curation focuses on clear material transparency, comfort-first design, and quality aligned with modern safety expectations
(including standards like ISO 3533:2021 where applicable).
We also encourage shoppers to avoid questionable soft plastics when possible—Health Canada notes that some PVC products may contain phthalates,
and recommends choosing phthalate- or PVC-free options.

Body-safe, curated quality

Fewer compromises. Better materials. Better comfort. Better long-term confidence.

Privacy first

Plain packaging and privacy-first billing designed for discreet delivery across Canada.

Real support

Quick, private help from real people—before and after you buy.


Helpful links:
Privacy,
Shipping & Returns,
Guides,
Contact Support.

Shop With Confidence

Your body deserves better—so does your shopping experience

From our base in Ottawa, Ontario, we make it easy to shop sexual wellness privately: curated quality, discreet delivery, and support that actually helps you choose the right fit.

Discreet Delivery Across Canada

Plain packaging + privacy-first billing—no awkward labels, no unwanted attention.

Curated Quality Over Quantity

We curate premium, body-safe options so you’re not stuck scrolling through thousands of random listings.

Beginner-Friendly Guidance

New here? Start simple with comfort-first picks and clear education—never shame, never pressure.

Ottawa-Based, Human Support

Quick answers from real people—before and after you buy.

Need help? We’re real humans in Ottawa, ON

Customer Support

Mon–Sat • 9am–6pm ET

Call / Text

+1 (343) 843-7142

Warehouse Address

1367 Clyde Ave, Ottawa, ON K2G 3H7