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When Someone You Love Is Kinky: A Guide to Kink and BDSM – Dossie Easton
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Curious about kink? Explore a world of deeper connection with When Someone You Love Is Kinky: A Guide to Kink and BDSM. This insightful book offers a clear path to understanding and embracing the nuances of kink, whether you're exploring your own desires or supporting a partner's journey.
Discover how to navigate the complexities of kink with confidence and open communication. This essential guide to kink provides the knowledge you need to foster intimacy and trust, making it an invaluable resource for anyone seeking to deepen their understanding of BDSM and sexual exploration.
When Someone you love is kinky, or if you're simply curious, this book is your trusted companion. It's written for those ready to explore elevated intimacy with a partner or on their own.
- Understand Kink: Gain clarity on various aspects of kink and BDSM.
- Improve Communication: Learn how to talk openly about desires and boundaries.
- Build Trust: Foster a stronger, more connected relationship through shared exploration.
- Empower Yourself: Navigate your own or a partner's kinks with confidence.
This guide is perfect for couples and curious beginners exploring elevated intimacy.
Who It's For: Couples and individuals curious about exploring kink and BDSM.
Feel: Confident, playful, and connected.
Specs:
- Title: When Someone You Love Is Kinky: A Guide to Kink and BDSM
- Author: Dossie Easton and Catherine A. Liszt
How to Use: Read at your own pace to absorb the valuable insights.
Ready to explore? Discover the possibilities and deepen your connection today.
About Red Pleasures
About Red Pleasures
Red Pleasures is an Ottawa-based sexual wellness store built for privacy, comfort, and confidence. We curate body-safe products and keep everything discreet—from browsing to delivery.
We also donate 10% of sales to support women impacted by sexual exploitation, because pleasure should always be rooted in safety and dignity.
Shipping & Returns
Shipping & Returns
Discreet shipping: Orders ship in plain, unmarked packaging so nothing on the outside reveals what’s inside.
Processing & delivery:
- Orders typically ship next business day.
- Ottawa/local deliveries usually arrive in 1–2 days (when available).
- Exact rates and delivery estimates show at checkout.
Returns:
Because these are intimate products, we only accept returns on unopened/unused items in original packaging. Opened items are typically not returnable for hygiene reasons.
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Is my order shipped discreetly?
Is my order shipped discreetly?
Yes. We ship in plain, unmarked packaging so it looks like a normal delivery and doesn’t reveal what’s inside.
What lube should I use with this?
What lube should I use with this?
In general, water-based lube is the safest all-around option (and is commonly recommended for silicone toys). If your toy is silicone, avoid silicone lube unless the manufacturer says it’s compatible.
How do I clean and care for it?
How do I clean and care for it?
Wash your toy after every use (and before sharing) using mild soap + warm water, then dry fully. Always follow the care instructions that come with the toy—especially for motorized or water-resistant products.
Can I share this with a partner?
Can I share this with a partner?
You can, but treat it like a personal item: clean between users and consider using a fresh condom over the toy when sharing to reduce infection risk.
Is it waterproof?
Is it waterproof?
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What’s your return policy on intimate items?
What’s your return policy on intimate items?
For hygiene reasons, opened/used intimate items usually can’t be returned. If an item is sealed and unused, it may be eligible (policy rules apply). If something arrives defective, contact us—we’ll help you with the next steps.
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Do you offer rewards or extra discounts?
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