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Beginner Toys for Him

If you’ve never used a sex toy before—or it’s been a long time—Beginner Toys for Him keeps things simple, gentle and well explained.

This collection is curated with softer textures, easier fits and straightforward controls. You’ll find basic strokers, low-intensity vibrators, beginner cock rings and slim plugs designed to help you explore without pain or pressure.

Every product page spells out what to expect and how to use it. Start with something that feels like a small upgrade to what you already do, and give yourself permission to learn what your body actually enjoys.
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Red silhouettes of a man and a woman facing each other on a black background
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Bondage wedge pillow set with velvet cover, restraints, and cuffs on gray sofa.

Bondage

Bondage Wedge Pillow Set with Restraints and Velvet Cover – XR LLC

$134.13 $861.78
A dark blue Calexotics Admiral rope coiled next to its packaging.

Bondage

Soft Cotton Bondage Rope for Shibari, 98.5ft – Calexotics

$3.45 $25.38
Adjustable black PU leather female chastity belt with padlock.

Bondage

Adjustable PU Leather Female Chastity Belt in Black – XR LLC

$163.15 $195.78
Red satin sashes for restraint and blindfolding.

BDSM

Satin Bondage Tie-Up Sashes for Restraint and Blindfold – Liberator

$105.70
$105.70
The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage instructional book by Midori.

Accessories

The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage Instructional Book by Midori

$54.88
$54.88
Rainbow bamboo silk bondage rope with multiple colors.

BDSM

Rainbow Bamboo Silk Bondage Rope (8m) – Emojibator

$64.88
$64.88
Grey microvelvet half-moon bolster pillow with silk sashes.

Furniture

Bondage Pillow with Silk Sashes, Microvelvet Half-Moon – Liberator

$512.25
$512.25
White silicone chastity cage with ventilation holes.

For Him

Airlock Vented Silicone Chastity Cage in White Ice – Oxballs

$97.75
$97.75
Pink silicone chastity cage with ventilation holes.

For Him

Airlock Vented Silicone Chastity Cage in Pink Ice – Oxballs

$114.88
$114.88
Kama Sutra erotic bondage playset with handcuffs, feather, and cards.

Accessories

Erotic Bondage Playset with Handcuffs and Body Care – Kama Sutra

$70.63
$70.63
Adjustable black fabric bondage cuffs with a buckle closure.

BDSM

Adjustable Soft Fabric Bondage Handcuffs – Sex & Mischief

$27.38
$27.38
A BDSM kit with a red blindfold, black fuzzy handcuffs, and an XOXO paddle.

BDSM

BDSM Beginner Bondage Kit with Cuffs and Paddle – Sex & Mischief

$57.38
$57.38
Clear ice vented silicone chastity cage with metal inserts.

For Him

Airlock Electro Vented Silicone Chastity Cage in Clear Ice – Oxballs

$137.13
$137.13
Black satin ribbon restraints and blindfold.

BDSM

Black Satin Ribbon Restraints and Blindfold – Liberator

$105.70
$105.70
Black stretchy silicone chastity device with a U-shaped design.

BDSM

Meatlocker Stretchy Silicone Chastity Device in Black Ice – Oxballs

$112.38
$112.38
Kinbaku The Art of Rope Bondage book cover with a woman tied with rope.

Accessories

Kinbaku The Art of Rope Bondage Book by Murakawa – Red Pleasures

$68.63
$68.63
Adjustable black bondage restraint system with straps and cuffs.

BDSM

Adjustable Bed and Door Bondage Restraint System – Sportsheets

$127.75
$127.75
Soft velboa beginner handcuffs with snap connectors.

Other

Soft Velboa Beginner Handcuffs with Snap Connectors – Sportsheets

$21.88
$21.88
Black adjustable neoprene cuffs with metal rings and clasps.

BDSM

Adjustable Neoprene Bondage Cuffs in Black – Sportsheets

$44.70
$44.70
Soft silicone chastity cage with ventilation holes and a built-in sling.

For Him

Airlock Sling Chastity Cage - Soft Silicone Ventilated Device – Oxballs

$97.88
$97.88
A grey silicone chastity cage with ventilation holes.

For Him

Airlock Vented Silicone Chastity Cage in Steel – Oxballs

$114.88
$114.88
Black padded adjustable handcuffs with metal chain and clasps.

Bondage

Edge Padded Adjustable Handcuffs with Metal Hardware – Sportsheets

$100.25
$100.25
Red satin blindfold, fuzzy nipple clamps, and two satin restraints.

BDSM

Amor Bondage Beginner Kit with Satin Restraints in Red – Sex & Mischief

$49.88
$49.88
Black bondage restraint kit with blindfold and cuffs.

BDSM

Bondage Restraint Kit with Microvelvet Cuffs and Blindfold – Liberator

$144.88
$144.88
Book cover for "Miumi-U Teaches Japanese Shibari" with an illustration of two people in rope.

Accessories

Japanese Shibari Rope Bondage Instructional Book by Miumi-U – Red Pleasures

$39.25
$39.25
Merlot microvelvet bondage kit with blindfold, wrist cuffs, and ankle cuffs.

BDSM

Bondage Cuff and Blindfold Kit in Merlot Microvelvet – Liberator

$144.88
$144.88
Shibari Suspensions book cover with a person suspended by ropes and another person assisting.

Accessories

Shibari Suspensions: Step-by-Step Japanese Rope Bondage Guide – Books

$49.13
$49.13
A coiled rainbow-colored bamboo silk bondage rope.

BDSM

Rainbow Bamboo Silk Bondage Rope (8m) – Emojibator

$62.38
$62.38
A book cover titled "Basic Rope Bondage" by Jay Wiseman.

Accessories

Basic Rope Bondage Guide: Knots and Positions – Toybag

$19.63
$19.63
Black glitter collar and cuffs connected by a chain.

BDSM

Shadow Sparkle Bondage Collar and Cuff Set in Black – Sex & Mischief

$18.13
$18.13
Black queen-size bondage bed sheet set with four blue anchor pads and four black cuffs.

BDSM

Bondage Bed Sheet Set with Restraints and Cuffs, Queen – Sportsheets

$341.00
$341.00
Silver metal handcuffs with two keys.

BDSM

Classic Metal Handcuffs with Keys in Silver – Sex & Mischief

$24.05
$24.05
Emerald green silicone restraint cuffs with two large loops and a textured middle.

BDSM

Large Silicone Restraint Cuffs in Emerald Green – Sportsheets

$25.75
Black adjustable hogtie and cuff set with four restraints.

BDSM

Hogtie and Cuff Set with 4 Adjustable Restraints – Sportsheets

$79.88
Book cover titled "Bondage for Sex Volume 1" with rope bondage imagery.

Accessories

Bondage for Sex: An Introductory Guide to BDSM and Fetish – Books

$60.63

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